Review by Doody's Review Service, December 2007

Description

This book is a reality check for new and current parents not to get so caught up in the perfect room, the perfect crib, the perfect child, but to instead look at the roles of mother and father. Beyond the confusion and the myths of parenthood lies a reality that is so well explained, this book will appeal to mothers and fathers from all walks of life.

Purpose

The purpose is to separate fact from fiction, myth from reality, and aptly arm both new and not-so new parents with the tools and knowledge they need to succeed as parents and raise healthy children. First-time parents can be susceptible to the latest fads and newest trends, and the authors succeed in finding the path to reality and sanity which is often missing today. Readers will find this book appealing as it is written in an easy to read style that is neither condescending nor basic. The writing style is akin to having a close friend who's been there before coaching and supporting you.

Audience

The beauty of this book is that any expectant parent, new parent, or not-so new parent from any background will find it enlightening and a breath of fresh air. Notably, healthcare professionals will enjoy this book and find it a valuable tool in their day-to-day work with parents.

Features

The authors discuss the psychological impact of having a child for both men and women in separate yet detailed chapters. Adoption, fertility treatments, single motherhood, same sex parenting, and the joy of pregnancy are explored in a frank yet comforting spirit. Couples will especially benefit from the chapter that discusses the changes which are sure to occur in even the healthiest of relationships once baby arrives. The book explores the many facets of parenthood in ways most other books have failed.

Assessment

What a truly wonderful addition to the literature for both those in the mental health field and the lay public. There is no finer book on parenthood available today.